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Sunday, July 25, 2010

Real Dolls and the Problem with "Anatomically Correct"

One of my friends just shared this short documentary piece on the making of Real Dolls. There's also a super creepy series of photos from the factory here.

Honey Pie from California is a place. on Vimeo.



Real Dolls certainly give us feminists plenty to be bothered about, but when watching this video, the thing that probably bothered me the most is when the guy explained that when he started making these things, he got lots of questions about whether they were "anatomically correct", which is why they ended up with fuckable vaginas. And it struck me -- why, in our culture, does the term "anatomically correct" automatically equal genitals? When someone uses that term, we know exactly what they're talking about. (Sort of like how we know what the term "legal" is supposed to mean, when we're referring to young girls. Shudder.)

Shouldn't "anatomically correct" also refer to working brains? Central nervous systems? Hearts, lungs, bones, pores, blood cells, metabolism, digestion? These dolls, of course, have none of these things, but as long as they're "anatomically correct" in the way that serves the penises of the men who buy them, that's all that matters.

56 comments:

Unapologetically Mundane said...

I'm dying to look at the Real Dolls site more but got worried about browsing it at work after 5 minutes of composing a male doll for myself.

I'd be interested in reading some feminist perspectives on them, if you can think of anything off the top of your head.

On one hand, I hate their supposed perfection and the idea that some guy out there isn't dating women because he can't find one that compares to his Real Doll. On the other hand, if I'm a woman who's tired of dating creeps and doesn't want to lower myself to have sex with one of them, this is awesome.

I kind of want to get some just to sit on my couch, to be honest.

Unapologetically Mundane said...

Also, apparently there are also hermaphrodite dolls! Now that's the kind of anatomically correct I can get behind.

Tracey said...

Hmmm. Feminist blogs had a lot to say about them around the time everybody was finding out about them. Like, months before Lars and the Real Girl ever came out. If you go to feministing.com and search for "Real Dolls", and you'll probably find some stuff.

I think one of the creepiest things about them is that they aren't marketed as plain old sex toys, but we're supposed to understand that they provide some sort of actual sense of companionship to tons of men. And it's weird that a big part of "companionship" is sex. If we didn't live in a culture that already objectified women so much, it would be a different story.

Anonymous said...

My understanding is that various feminist groups are working in the US and other countries to get Real Dolls/sexbots banned. Doing research on this led me to this blog post.

Unapologetically Mundane,
Since you are unsure of your own feelings, the best answer would probably be to not ban Real Dolls and to allow people to own their own sexuality and make their own decisions. Feminists tend to apply this thinking to abortion and same-sex marriage, why not apply it to the usage of Real Dolls?

Anonymous said...

UM said: "On one hand, I hate their supposed perfection and the idea that some guy out there isn't dating women because he can't find one that compares to his Real Doll. On the other hand, if I'm a woman who's tired of dating creeps and doesn't want to lower myself to have sex with one of them, this is awesome."

Bwahahahaaha!!
Double standard much!?

This adds up to:
"Man want Real Doll!? BAD! Man should be making himself useful to a woman!"
"Woman want Real Doll!? GOOD! Woman should be free to pleasure herself without dealing with men!"

Hypocrisy much!?

Anonymous said...

I stumbled upon this trying to research an strangely lost topic: getting a doll or dolls for my daughter that are not dressed like hookers, act dumb, are 10 feet tall, and weigh 90lbs. It's really, really impossible. There are baby dolls, Barbies and those terrifying new additions Bratz. But everything is being sexualized when it comes to girl stuff: costumes, shows on tv, movies- it's as if there was never a feminist movement at all. Broaching the topic of porn on my FB was a serious no comment-er. No one wants to admit it's becoming a problem on the internet because it's a billion dollar industry with lots of power. I look at this and I see something else disturbing again: I'm able to understand that this Real Doll may be supposedly helping some men as the justification by it's creator for creating it, however, I find exception in the fact that it is not okay to normalize something that really isn't normal. Normal is finding a living and breathing person for sexual relations- or companionship. Even getting a dog seems far more "normal" than this could ever be. Yes, anyone should have the right to choose this as an option, certainly, but why people are busy discussing whether this is normal or not we have men still utilizing the idea that socially they are so unattractive or incapable of having a female companion we are clearly missing the mission behind creating a more socially stable society. We need to help people by educating them about their sexuality and making women aware that they have the power to take their power back! PS: I'm a person who used to believe that liberal meant you let people do whatever they want no matter what as long as it didn't hurt anyone, but I realize now that this train of thought creates a damning social narrative useful in capitalist societies where you have artists , while exercising a need to be creative, also need to make a living and utilize these excuses for their cultivation of ideas which they can make normal. I even once watched the film, The People Vs. Larry Flynt and had no idea until later that I was witnessing the extension of the catastrophe of the 1950s bringing about Playboy. We are animals whose brains are very much affected by what we are stimulated by externally- men who use the Real Doll are not being helped- they are being sold on the idea that they will feel better if they get one.

Anonymous said...

And it struck me -- why, in our culture, does the term "anatomically correct" automatically equal genitals?

Of course it does, do you think people are getting these dolls for any other reason? Seriously.

Shouldn't "anatomically correct" also refer to working brains? Central nervous systems? Hearts, lungs, bones, pores, blood cells, metabolism, digestion? These dolls, of course, have none of these things, but as long as they're "anatomically correct".

First off, we have yet to prefect that technology, and second, if we did put all those anatomically correct things in the doll, women would be bitching about how they are being replaced.

Honestly I have to agree with Anonymous who talked of a double standard. To further illustrate, women can't stand the idea of losing some sort of control over men, but rather they want men to put up with all their nagging and abuse they dish out. But women are perfectly within their right to replace the men in their lives if they feel like there are no decent men to date.

Honestly, with all the crap that men have to put up with from selfish, entitled, bitch princesses, it is any wonder then why men create substitutes that are safer and better alternatives?

Kitchen Benchtops said...

I'm interested in either doll. If only I was closer. Doll looks kinda jolly.

Ernest said...

Well, I am not going to apologize for wanting or buying a Real Doll. It does not matter what my parents, relatives, or other people in general say.

I love Real Dolls. They look realistic and almost feel realistic. They are sexy. They can do whatever I want them to do whenever and wherever. They are indeed less complicated than some people are. I may find them better to take care than I do with even pet(s).

Anonymous said...

The word is that the makers of Real Dolls are working on a new product which is more realistically suited to the desires of most women. It's a silicone penis attached to an ATM machine.

They haven't quite worked out how to get it to to all of the work in bed or to magically refill itself with money once a week, but they are taking pre-orders. My ex-wife has already signed up for one.

Anonymous said...

Feminists should be happy, they can finally be rid of men. The most annoying aspect of feminism to me is that it's always trying to focus on changing men's preferences. "Men don't like fat women? Lets try to force them to" ... It's like a guy saying women need to be attracted to unconfident men.

I am no troll, I am literally a male model, and I am financially independent from a business i started. Not wealthy , but I don't have to work. A lot of women like me, but frankly with the marriage laws, and all shit advice women get on how to behave, feminism etc. I am frankly considering the real doll as a real option if they make them a little more realistic . I do want kids though, so maybe I will do some surrogate option.

Btw I was raised by a feminist. Love my mom, but that is an insane religion (feminism)

Anonymous said...

To me, it seems that feminist women don't feel that a guy should enjoy a doll in this manner not because they think its icky. But because to them the guy doesn't simply have that right. Let me explain.
Take the typical loser-type guy who bombs with women. A woman sees this guy as below her on a social level. She doesn't want him talking to her, she doesn't want other people to see him interacting with her. She basically wants nothing to do with the guy. Let the pathetic guy be creepy with his Playboy mags and his jar of hand lotion because that is all he's good for in her eyes.
Well, now he has the option to get a hold of one of these dolls. Sure, the guy and his love doll can't go on romantic moonlight walks, go to the movies together, go out dancing together on a Saturday night, or have any type of interaction whatsoever.
But, the doll can give him what the feminist feels he doesn't deserve...a sexual experience with something that resembles a woman who is on a higher status level as the feminist is. After all, they are making these dolls to be perfect in form and appearance. How dare he cheat nature and jump right up to having a sexual experience that he wouldn't otherwise deserve? After all, he is an awkward loser who she would otherwise ignore entirely, right?
This man who she instinctively looks down upon is getting pleasure that she feels should only be experienced by a man she feels is worthy of having that experience.
So resentment toward the existence of these dolls develops. Resentment toward the creator of these dolls develops. How dare these men (who she would otherwise not give the time of day to) have the nerve to seek and get pleasure from something that so much resembles a woman who is of a higher social status than her?
She's appalled by that fact, and despite the fact that it is none of her business whatsoever what a guy does in the bedroom of his home if it isn't hurting anybody else, she takes a stand against the existence and manufacture of these dolls. She wants to see the awkward losers to go back to the Hustler magazines, the lotion, and the silent admiration they have of her as a female on a higher social status as they are. She wants them in their place, and it irks her that these dolls are giving them the feeling and experience that they are on a higher status level than they actually are.
She doesn't realize that the very fact that she feels this way is one of the main reasons that these dolls are so popular in the first place.

Anonymous said...

I do not own one of these, but I can see the temptation to have even at least a fake female to cuddle with. I am nearing 43, and because of birth defects to my hands, every woman I have shown any feelings toward has rejected me outright, simply because I do not have perfectly formed hands. The ONLY variance has been some were gentle and had the decency to at least be conscious of the fact they were rejecting someone over shallow physical shortcomings, and others were cruel and callous. But in the end, every female I made myself vulnerable to has shot me down. So please, please forgive me if I have very little empathy for your concerns. Women are every bit as shallow as men, neither gender is perfect. And if these dolls give some lonely guys like me some comfort they would otherwise not have, then leave them alone.

Emma said...

I can't help but feel threatened by these. Why would a man deal with me when at times I can be fickle, bitchy, disagreeable, jealous, possessive, needy, etc.? But then I remember that the purpose of sex is to produce children, and sex as recreation is highly overvalued in our society. Any man who chooses one of these dolls is stupid. Not only am I beautiful and sexy, but I'm smart, funny, and attentive. I can provide for him domestically and emotionally, even financially if needed. I can bear his children. I can make memories and have fun with him. I can be his best friend. I don't understand how one of these dolls could EVER make a person laugh like I could. Women needn't feel threatened in any way by these dolls, because the only men who are interested in buying them (other than those who have tons of money to spend on them solely as a sex toy, or even for an artist for figure drawing I can understand) are human beings who have no interest in interacting with other humans on a deeper level. I've been with guys who had the "tools" and the "moves," but the best sex I ever had was with a poorly-endowed virgin because I loved him so much. People who buy these dolls for companionship purposes are clearly missing the point.

Anonymous said...

Women....
You seriously need to stop reading so much into things like this. In most cases I can almost guarantee that any guy buying one of these has done it either just for fun, or because women always go on with shit like this. Odds are, the poor guy has been either rejected or ignored by women his whole life and so turns to these dolls as an alternative, not because he thinks women should look like the dolls, but because women continually reject him because he fails to meet THEIR preconceived ideas of the perfect man. Seriously take a look at your own behaviour before pointing fingers.

Anonymous said...

Tracey, I'm sorry, but first of all you shouldn't presume to speak for "feminists" or feminism. There is no consensus on what they mean. About the only common denominator is that women shouldn't be second class to men. I'll suggest that the rest of it is wide open.

Which means that if some women - even feminist women - want to "objectify" some or all of their sexual partners, they are perfectly free to do so and shouldn't have to worry about other "feminists" judging them. Not all people consider sex to be a sacred act nor even necessarily an act of "love." Stop feeling "bothered" by the glorious variety of humanity and learn to live and let live.

Second, why are you complaining about clear language? If everyone understands that "anatomically correct" refers to genitals, especially when the context is a sex doll, why does the clarity of the term bother you? What term would you prefer to use? Moreover, anatomically correct does not always refer to genitals or sex. For example, in breast reconstruction surgery it denotes a "natural" breast, and the term is also used with various prosthetics. Perhaps one day, when science has advanced enough to create "working brains," we will be able to talk about "anatomicallly correct brains." But until that day, Tracey, it doesn't make sense to say that we "should" refer to it.

You talk about the way that anatomically correct dolls can serve penises. Being a feminist who believes in equality (I assume), do you have equally harsh and judgmental words for women who enjoy anatomically correct sex toys?

Live and let live, Tracey, and stop giving feminism a bad name. The percentage of people who want sex dolls is a drop in the proverbial ocean, so even if it bothers you it's unlikely you'll ever meet, let alone date anyone who has one. A feminist could more productively get bothered by more common and serious problems, like child poverty and hunger? :-)

Anonymous said...

It seems like ultra-feminists would be glad men were resorting to Realdolls. It gets men away from them and frees them up to tear one another down instead.

Unknown said...

I think the term anatomically correct in this context is referred to the vagina because we all come in different shapes and sizes, what is probably focused is if the vagina is implemented. I agree with Tracey, it's not just a object manufactured to please the man's penis. Because let's face it, it's in our nature that we are attracted to the other gender or the same gender (or none) and part of this attraction derives to be reproduction. Which is a leading reason to why men want to have sex with anyone (or in this case anything) they find attractive. It's the structure of our hormones and neurotransmittors.

If I were you I wouldn't bother myself over that anatomically correct was referred to vaginas because I personally, wouldn't pay high price for something so detailed just to cuddle with or play around with, I might have as well just gotten a hugbear or an action figure.

Jessica said...

I think the man who created these dolls did so with very good, beautiful intentions. However, I think he is unintentionally doing a mad disservice to the equality movement for women. I'm sad to know these exist.

Anonymous said...

As long as these dolls don't threaten my right to vote or drive or work, this really shouldn't be a "feminist" issue. I'd rather have a man objectify a doll than me. Although if I was with a man that had one I'd probably feel kinda weird if it was stuffed in a closet or something. They look real. But realistically, it is not a real person. If the gentleman with the charming hands just wants a female form because women judge him, who are any of us to tell him he's wrong? If the male model wants some "company" without being quizzed about his income, what's wrong with that? I couldn't have any more of a problem with a doll than with a vibrator or dildo. It doesn't seem much different than masturbating to porn, and if I was a man, it'd probably be preferable. Sure they don't have affection or personalities, but it could be that our entitled personalities and solid-gold vaginas with rainbows shooting out of them could be what they want to escape in the first place. Be kinder and maybe men won't want to f@%k a doll instead of you.

Drake said...

It seems that most other guys have left some really ignorant comments concerning this blog. Cmon guys seriously your just feeding the hatred here. I am married to a strong confident wife whom I have loved for many years, I say strong and confident because to say feminist or pro female would lump her in with some of your extreme feminazis which she is not. The definition between the two I see as being when your goal is equality not superiority. Unapologetically Female is obviously very threatened by this toy and that's all it is is a toy nothing more nothing less it is no different then a vibrator or dildo for a women and simple fact of the matter is the womens sex toy industry is 10 times that of mens sex toy. I am not talking about Porn but physical sexual devises for achieving climax. Its great that someone is finally releasing a product that is of such a high standard and quality that can compare with whats available to women, my wife and I intend to buy one eventually so that we can try something new and exciting. I guess where i'm getting at is I love my wife and her strength and her confidence and thats what makes her a women not a perfect waist and zero G tits and she is not threatened by a Realdoll at all because she is confident in herself and my love for her, seriously Unapologetically Female take a loooong hard look at yourself and try to see how you are not just the sum of your parts but something more that this doll can never be. As far as guys engaging with relationships with these dolls SO THE FUCK WHAT, what does that matter more than likely these guys are suffering with confidence issues making it hard to engage and interact with real women and maybe these dolls will help them gain confidence. Women tend to hate how the world portrays an impossible image of women that guys cling to, well trust me, its the same on the other shoe you think guys don't get alienated sometimes by the *PERFECT* guys in most female books, T.V, Movies etc. take a look at every single romance novel and tell me how many guys you see walking around that look like that. The point is this is meant as a masturbatory devise and is not going to make real women obsolete anymore than the vibrator in your third drawer made men obsolete.

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Anonymous said...

I am interested in a Real Doll for reasons only touched on above. I'm older, have multiple physical problems, and have difficulty using my hands to masturbate. I can hire hookers and have 'real' women, but do any of you think that is a better alternative than a doll?
They are also toys - I can get excited about dressing her up, posing her, and yes, cuddling her. A magazine or internet porn isn't 3-d, the dolls are.

Anonymous said...

I think I love you! At last, someone who gets it!!!

Unknown said...

You need to get over your self. Us men in the world do not revolve around you stupid self centered women. Men have options now and they have the right to have sex dolls and sex robots to fullfill their needs/fantasies.

Unknown said...

Amazing. Women(Self proclaimed "feminist" types)are actually jealous of a work of art, manifested by a rubber doll sculpted in the likeness of a beautiful woman. When you get to the point where you are so insecure as to attack a doll, statue, sculpture, painting, or photograph that portrays anyone's appreciation for natural human female sexuality(a very natural evolutionary value) just for the sake of it bothering your collective ego, you have proven the hypocrisy of your ideals. No wonder so many women don't subscribe to Feminism, and enjoy being the classic mother, homemaker and housewife.

Unknown said...

If a man is happy with one of these toys, so what? Perhaps you also want to outlaw two men from having a relationship because that too reduces a woman's selection? You are way out of line thinking that someone else's sex life is any of your business. Pretty ironic considering how hard women have had to struggle for control of their own bodies. Please apologize for your callous, self-centered remarks.

LiLithe said...

Hello I'd just like to say this:: I'm a young woman in my 20's I'm bisexual and I'm engaged to an older man in his 40's. And I have a Male RealDoll2 too!! That's right a MALE!! Men aren't the only ones who get these dolls. And they are NOT just sex toys to every one who owns one!! I also have another Male RealDoll2 currently being made, and I'm in the middle of making plans to order a female RealDoll too!! Hell if I have the money, I want to own as many as I want of both the females AND the males!! My fiancé completely supports me and my love for them and wants to be involved in the decision making involving them! Like helping me get them dressed, picking out outfits, etc. He supports me!!

The MAN supports the WOMAN who owns a MALE RealDoll2!!

He loves me and I love him!! We have been together for going on 4 and half years now, almost 5! And I told him about wanting to get a Male RealDoll2 right when I first met him, he understood completely! He still does!! These dolls may be labeled as "sex dolls" or "love dolls" by the masses, but to a lot of people they are more much more. Despite the fact that sex seems to be what most people think of first and foremost. These dolls are companions all it really takes is a healthy imagination. It's like having your childhood imaginary friend brought to life. And for people who have never had sex, if they have the money and buy one it can help them get past the awkwardness of touching another body.
The point being you are all focusing mostly on the "sex" aspect of it. They are more than that. And there are more companies than just RealDoll too!! My RealDolls will never be sex objects to me, just as my favorite stuffed animals were never just stuffed toys to me. I still have my favorite stuffed animals from my childhood. And there are days when I still take them with me when I leave the house. Like when I go to the doctor's, just like when I was a kid. And my fiancé completely understands that too. He's the best guy I've ever met!! He's always there for me. Before I met him I'd given up on finding love, I'd given up on finding friends. I'd resigned myself to just be by myself. He has helped through that, and so has my Male RealDoll2!! My fiancé works overseas a lot so I'm alone when he's not there and my Male RealDoll2 keeps me company and helps me feel like I'm not alone.
If it weren't for them, for my fiancé and my Male RealDoll2 I honestly can't say for a fact that I'd be better off. Hell I may not even be here. I've been a victim of bullying since I was a kid, I can't remember a time where I ever DID fit it, or wasn't teased relentlessly. I'm still being bullied, and I'm an adult now. Online bullying is just as bad hell it can be worse than bullying in person. Because people are bolder. They don't hold back. They care even less. But I can handle it a lot better now because I have my fiancé and my Male RealDoll2, and soon my new Male RealDoll2, and pretty soon my Female RealDoll2 too!!

And for my fiancé and me our relationship is not all about sex and never was. I'm not ashamed to say it but I'm a virgin by choice. And not for religious reasons. I'm saving myself and will continue to save myself for our honeymoon. And my fiancé is a gentleman and it was his idea to wait. Even though its hard. And trust me I am not uninterested in sex, my fiancé can vouch for that. We just want to wait.

Relationships are about so much more than sex, sex can help bring people closer that is true based on some scientific studies. But being together and doing stuff together, just being with one another is what counts.

And I'd rather be with my fiancé on the streets than with some rich pretty boy in a mansion.

My fiancé is my very best friend in the whole world, and I'm his. My fiancé is my soulmate, and I am his. I've changed so much and my life is much better and richer now thanks to him.

Dr. M.W. Bychowski, Ph.D said...

Good job :) A well reasoned and specific post. You clearly stated your critique of the language "anatomically correct." It could be have a bit longer and more developed, which might have helped elucidate things for misunderstanding readers but I agreed with your premise. You are engaging with the topic on the level of discourse and so are concerned with violence of representation rather than enacted physical or legal violence against women. In this case, you really are addressing gender theory (deconstructing what gender means) more than traditional first or second wave feminism. In the end, your post unpacks how power structures are informing language and visa versa, not condemning those who buy these dolls (although you may or may not feel they should be condemned). In any case, I wanted to throw some support on a stream of responses that have been largely negative. I've written some of my own thoughts on a related post about Transgender Studies and Real Dolls (http://thingstransform.blogspot.com/2014/06/real-dolls-transgender-sex-toys.html)

Best wishes!
MW Bychowski
PhD Candidate in English
George Washington University

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Masculine Mike said...

I agree with what that last guy said! Spoken like a true Gentleman, I could not have said it better myself! I have yet to find anything better than gathering up some of my old college buddies and hog tying my wife to the stump in our backyard, and gang bang her asshole (forcefully of course) until she cries. And then afterwards, we all take turns calling her cruel names and throwing ninja stars at her nipples. After that, she bakes us chocolate chip cookies (with oatmeal) and we watch Seinfeld marathons. Oh and I LOVE SEX DOLLS!

Feminist Tracy said...

My weight has nothing to do with this! But yes, I am rather large. My lesbian scissoring partner, Bertha is large too and we love each other all the same. Also, even though I lack a formal education and eat my meals from a trough, that doesn't mean that I am not beautiful.

Masculine Mike said...

Yes it does, you are fat. Fatty. I estimate that within the next 5-10 years, you will probably get touched inappropriately by a clown at your job in the circus and are forced to have an abortion from Captain hook. Oh and also, just to reiterate my previous point...you are fat.

Feminist Tracy said...

I know...Ive been trying to lose weight but I love cake with mayo. I hate my body and I am a bitter person especially towards men's penises, because I know they are superior and I will probably never see one again.

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Anonymous said...

"Anatomically correct" does refer to genitalia, but not for the maladjusted reasons given here. The term came into being in defense of the fragile psyches of young girls, and boys for that matter. Pre-adolescents--girls mostly--were flooded with dolls that looked for the most part human...but had no genitals!! How freaking disturbing for growing minds. No wonder our society is full of the sexually maladjusted. The rampant sexual maladjustment, where sex is a taboo subject, is bad enough. Then we saw a movement toward "anatomically correct" dolls. Good solution, right? The backlash from those whose psyches were already reeling from imposed sexual repression just couldn't handle it.

Seriously, very few would waste their lives with a sex doll in lieu of real human contact, no matter how realistic. And only the seriously maladjusted (Refer to "sexually maladjusted" above) would object to something that could potentially keep a disturbed person from a life of sexual predation. Like the sex positive industry, it fulfills a need that otherwise would be filled...in other ways.

Doll Junction said...

Its useless arguing over a matter of blow up dolls, people who likes them will use them , who doesn't will not have them. Why does it matter if someone is using them..

Anonymous said...

Except without men you wouldn't exist. Takes two to tangle yah dumb broad.

Anonymous said...

"in the way that serves the penises of the men who buy them, that's all that matters."

For a rabid feminist you understand what is important in life more than most women. (Perhaps you are really a man?)

Without this desire in men, most of you women would starve to death since you would have little value to any man, unless he wanted a baby. On the bright side there would be far fewer few fat women.

Anonymous said...

So dildos that objectify the male penis is ok, but a female doll isn't? Hypocrisy thy name is you

Anonymous said...

LMFAO this comment wins the internet.

Anonymous said...

Clearly you didn't read any of the other comments of men who will never get a woman bc he's too poor, too short, too thin, too fat, had a disorder, disability, small penis, isn't the best looking.

The difference is feminists try to force all men to accept these same preferences that women thrust upon men bc they call it shaming women. Only if it happens to men they are losers and don't deserve it. So these unfortunate men find companionship elsewhere I.e. Sex dolls. And look at the comments from feminists and women they are trying to ban this as well. Bc it is objectifying women which is horseshit, bc you'll notice that they never mention dildos as objectifying men. It's their genitals that is replacing but that's ok bc discriminating and hating men is ok.

Anonymous said...

Yeah I'm sad to know dildos exist too. Oh you're ok with those? Why? It's male genitals that women use to pleasure themselves. So why can't men who want to pleasure themselves have this as well? Especially the poor saps who have been rejected time and time again by women bc of unrealistic expectations of them or for their own shallow reasons. Seems a bit of a double standard that it's ok to get upset over this but say nothing about all the female sex toys available.

Anonymous said...

I have a sneaking suspicion a dude wrote this comment. Either way I agree.

Anonymous said...

One of the funniest trolls I've ever read!

Sex doll said...

men and women both objectify each other with these sex toys or sex dolls or sex swings!

Anonymous said...

Lol, without men the women would have been killed by predator animals long ago. Dumb bitches these days can't even fix a vehicle, let alone build a village.
As a man who lost a quarter of a million Use to one of the whores that wander this planet looking for a free ride, I simply can't wait to buy one of these dolls.
But of course these brain dead feminists will complain till they're blue in the face, despite them owning a realistic dildo and despite them believing men are nothing more than tools for fighting wars.
In fact, I may even leave my sizeable inheritance to a realdoll, just as a final 'fuck you' to the feminist harpies.

Anonymous said...

I am amazed at how little the women posting here understand men. Men want sex and we HATE how women have weaponized it.

Companionship -- I get that from the women I work with, who are great friends of mine. I have no desire to start fucking these women as I know it will immediately turn into a complicated power game. With my lady friends I go out to clubs, walk around the building, talk about life, laugh, and sometimes cry with them. I love how we NEVER have a tug-of-war over sex and control. Because these women do not have the power of sex over me, I do not resent them, and I genuinely love them for who they are. I never want our friendship to change.

I enjoy hanging out with my women friends, then I go home and have any kind of sex I want with my realdoll. I never have to beg for sex, never have to jump through hoops to get a (grudgingly given) blow job, never have to worry about unfaithfulness (rampant with modern women, as admitted by my friends), don't worry about STD's, rape or domestic violence allegations.

I can watch a football game if I want, or take the trash out in the morning instead of the night, not shave for the weekend, mow the lawn on Saturday instead of Sunday, work on my classic Porsche in the garage, talk to old friends on the phone, work late to make sure I score my bonuses, ....and all WITHOUT the threat of sex being withheld.

Please understand, I have never had problems getting women. The problems always began after I had the woman. All that I love about women and all I love about my life ALWAYS went to hell when women inevitability began using sex as a weapon to get what they want from me. The arguing, manipulation, deceit, outright theft-- all impacted my career and (for awhile) my health. I have never been more miserable than when in a tortuous relationship with a woman.

Consequently, by removing sex from the equation and eliminating the power a woman has over me, I find I love the women in my life that much more. Think about this.

Anonymous said...

I am a man. I agree there is a "creepy" component about sex dolls because of the hypersexualization of the female body, and the designs of these dolls are just plain unrealistic, as it represents only a particular age in a real human being, that said, when a girl is young and fertile. But then, on the other hand, evolutionary speaking attraction to young female body has been correlated with healthy overall physicality. For the evolutionary brain, the part that has not detached from the cave days, still young = fertile. Evolutionary pressures has dictated that species must reproduce no matter what to avoid extinction. World population grows uncontrollable on irrational thoughts. That irrationality of the cave days at work. Evolution has dictated pleasure as a means for orgasm because it "forces" or translates to irrationality and sexual seeking behavior. People have sex with prostitutes knowing they can get infected with very real diseases. People have babies left and right when summit in absolute poverty. Women keep having babies after knowing the excruciating pain of bringing a human being to this planet. Etc. If that sex seeking behavior was channeled or stopped in different ways most likely we would be a better species with less objectification and better goals, but the question is, would it be better this behavior in terms of species?. Would it be worst if humans were not as creative as they are to not allow the creation of sex dolls to satisfy the loneliness, fantasies, wrongful attitudes that some human beings consider "acceptable"?. Sex dolls exist because there is an empty need. It is not only a male fault or right, it is a species "problem". Does it help us to keep us going forward? Or is it the cave man, again, at work. 200 years with absolute separation of the sexes and we are extinct. Million of years of evolution, gone...Do four leg animals hypersexualize others too?...Right or wrong, there is no definitely a true answer.

Anonymous said...

At this point, considering how these expensive dolls are made these days, it doesn't matter if they are not perfectly anatomically correct. Since most men like myself only see the outward appearance of these silicone sex dolls being good enough to get our rocks off, that is all that matters to most of us. So they're good enough for some of us to get our needs out of the way and have the rest of the day to do whatever and relax.

If some of you females think you have issues with these sex dolls now, you are about to get a rude awakening concerning these sex dolls in the future years to come. At some point in time, probably soon enough, they will be robotic and take the place of the housewife. They will cook and clean house and be screwed whenever their owner feels like it. No bitching or nagging, no headaches, no more power over men with sex. We take it when we want it and it will be just that simple.

Now this is a double edge sword that can go both ways and women can get their sexual needs fulfilled with the male version of these sex dolls, just the same as with a dildo; but a dildo is less weight to deal with compared to these sex dolls. But women generally are emotional creatures and need more then just the body of a man. So that could be a problem in the future for most women, especially if they don't like the ideal of turning into a cat lady and dying alone.

Anonymous said...

"At some point in time, probably soon enough, they will be robotic and take the place of the housewife. They will cook and clean house and be screwed whenever their owner feels like it. No bitching or nagging, no headaches, no more power over men with sex. We take it when we want it and it will be just that simple."


We'd better make damn sure these sex bots can't become sentient then...
That's another slippery slope to consider.
I wouldn't want any concious being to suffer being enslaved for any reason:(

Anonymous said...

Women purchase 5-6% of sex dolls sold. YES women are buying and riding male sex dolls with rather large members.

Women are in no way above the men on this. Worse, you already have hundreds of other sex toys and many in insane proportions, so this whole gripe about anatomically perfect you toss out there is null and void. Worse because your toys reduce a man down to his unit, and nothing else. You want to talk about dehumanizng sex, that is dehumanizing sex. You stick rubber penises in yourselves. That is dehumanizing to men. You slam your boyfriend in a fight your dildo or vibrator is better than him.

Anonymous said...

Why be mad if someone chose a doll over a human? Live ur best life dude. Sex robots will end up replacing women some day. Get used to it now.

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vin9 said...

the only thing creepy about sex dolls is how you are so threatened by them. adult sex dolls are superior to women in every way. just accept it and move on and buy one here

Sex Doll said...

To be Real, the doll must reflect certain fantasies of the norm. This means, in the case of Michael, that the doll cannot be disabled. Even worse, the sex toy cannot be a toy. Admitting to what it is breaks the fantasy (a private affair) and makes it a disgusting political act (a public affair). This makes the toy liable to being policed by such a reviewer. To sustain the power of the object we need to deny what it is and what we are doing with it. Purchasing a Real Doll provides the experience of possessing a woman or man that one can enact one's illicit desires. One can fuck, cuddle, use, abuse, dress, undress, pose and dismember a Real Doll in ways and frequencies that would be too dangerous or illegal to practice on a human subject. In this way, the lie of authenticity appears to be a win-win situation. It is like a human when one enjoys the fantasy and then it is like an object when one fears the fantasy.